| Previous REAL LIVE requests… Q: What do all those Internet/Email terms mean? A:
NSND - non-smoker, no drugs
NSND - non-smoker, non-drinker
WWF - widowed White female
WWM - widowed White male
WBF - widowed Black female
WBM - widowed Black male
SWPM - single White professional male
SWPF - single White professional female
SBPM - single Black professional male
SBPF - single Black professional female
SBMP - single Black male parent
SBFP - single Black female parent
SWMP - single White male parent
SWFP - single White female parent
DBM - divorced Black male
DBF - divorced Black female
DWM - divorced White male
DWF - divorced White female
ASL - age, sex, location
STR8 - straight
LOL - laughing out loud
BTW - by the way
BRB - be right back
FYI - for your information
IC - I see
OIC - Oh I seePOV - point of view
GA - go ahead
AFK - away from keyboard
BAK - back at keyboard
MYOB - mind your own business
Snail Mail - the Postal Service
Q: I have a sexual fantasy to see my girlfriend having sex with other multiple partners. I picture her having group sex with her as the main focus. She knows about this fantasy and seems to like it. My question is, why? I don't fantasize about other women anymore. I think the idea of her in that situation is more of a turn on than the traditional male fantasy of having two women?-DH. A: In our pre-historic past sex was a collective activity and was entertaining and arousing in that context...
Seeing other people having sex — especially a partner is therefore a "trigger event" to have sex and get YOUR genes out there, fighting for the opportunity to turn into babies — which turn into perverts just like you!It's all part of our evolutionary "baggage" so to speak and our EVOLUTIONARY BIOLOGY!
Q:I recently had my first "cybersex" experience. It was totally unplanned and spontaneous.
I was married for 30 years and this type of thing is new to me. Are there any books you could recommend or other materials that teach "technique" (is that the right word??) or . . . guess I'm looking for a "how to" manual or some type of guide that gives ideas re what to say??
Thanks
Sandra
I am a 28 year old single mother of an 11 year old. I have always been straight. But. I have experimented with Bi Sex. Or at least been experimented on. I find the I never have an orgasm with a man. NEVER!!!!
The only time that I do orgasm is when I masturbate. When I do have an orgasm I fantasise about being with a woman because the thought of men does do nothing for me. I want to be with a woman so bad that it almost hurts. But I don't know any who are into that anymore.
Am I gay? Or just Bi?
-Sherri A: Mostly Gay.
Q: I want to have anal sex with my husband but he has a big d*ck.how and what to do ?
-BlacDymnd
Q: I have been involved with this guy for nine months now. It started off completely sexual but progressed into friendship and on my part,love. two months into the relationship I became pregnant and he said he would stick around. Our relationship continued both sexually and emotionally. He is an alcoholic and decided it was time to put himself in treatment. He quit drinking and then told me he just wants to be friends. I was completely crushed. We are the best of friends and I stay at his place every night, but I still love him. He says he doesn't want a relationship with any female,but when he does he'll come to me. I'm miserable when I'm not with him but still hurting even when I am. He will always be a part of my life because of this baby but I don't know if I can wait for him even though I want to. What should I do?-GP Q: I have fallen in love with a man 3,000 miles away and we have decided to get engaged.The clincher: we have not met in person and yet we have decided we have enough in common to join together in one home...
Q. I'm a married, stay-at-home mom. I recently had cybersex for the first time with someone I didn't know! He was a great teacher and I really enjoyed it. Here's the problem: guilt. My sex life with my husband hasn't been all that great due to kids, stress, the usual list. But I was really turned on by the cybersex. My husband didn't know what hit him the next day! If one night of cybersex has made me more into sex with my husband, is it a bad thing? Should I continue having cybersex to keep my marriage spicy or am I cheating on my spouse? My husband never uses a computer and has no clue what cybersex is.-Desperate for Passion Q: Here are my options.1: Turn myself in and probably do 30 days or more in jail, an experience I find that tests the limits of my ability to stay sane. 2: Make arrangements with friends to move out of state, something I intend to do eventually anyway, and leave all the legal red tape and the city I was born in far behind. 
Q: "I didn't want to have my nipple pierced, but the man that I was having a relationship with, insisted, and he bought two silver ear-rings, one of which he fixed in his right ear, and the other one, he insisted to have it fixed in my nipple. We went to a man one day without my being told what for, and there, he told me to get my top clothes off, as he was going to fix it up on my nipple. 
I refused, but they tied my hands behind my back, they tied the breast firmly with a wide string, such that it was held firm, and the nipple was solid pointing outside. He cleaned the nipple with surgical spirit, and then placing it on the counter, he got a pointed instrument out, and he started to pierce it from one side to the other, slowly. As soon as he started I was almost about to faint, with such great pain....he kept pressing it through, and left it there for a short while, until he cleaned the ear-ring, and as he removed it slowly, he began to insert the ring inside....oh, you can't imagine the sensation and the pain... He locked the ring, wiped it clean, and I was ready....I had pain in the nipple for close to a month, couldn't wear a bra, and now, as soon as I touch the ring or the nipple, I get a tremendous sensation, believeing he must have hit some nerve. It is like a door knocker... I find people looking at me at nudist gatherings. The flesh between the ring and nipple is not healed yet, and it hasn't widened enough to make the ring turn or be loose. Kindly contact me at [(address removed)].He also wanted me to have rings on the lips of my genitals, but I refused, and because I did so, I was thrown naked on a heap of manure in a farmhouse in the presence of a handful of men! What do you suggest I do? -M Q: It's complicated!!!Why am I in love with a "master", who's shown me how he doesn't love me for 23 years? Why do I believe he loves me? Why don't I feel turned on by my present husband? Master's been thru 3 of them with me. -DG |
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